After many discussions and putting alot of thought into it, the consequences, benefits, bringing us closer together, etc etc. My girlfriend and I have decided to have Sex.This is going to be the first time for both of us and its a little scary just because it has never happened. She is going to get birth control, and i will be getting condoms. My question is, would it be a better idea for her to use the pill or get the shot? I know with the pill you have to take it for a month before it actually kicks in right? Is it the same with the shot? Also is it just a shot in the arm or what?The reason the Pill scares me is because i know if she forgets to take it once it can cause a pregnancy. (My mom got pregnant with my sister because she missed one day) so i imagine the shot would be alot more reliable and safe for people our age (18ish)
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The Time has Come
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The shot is a shot in the hip/butt, and its affective instantly/second dayish
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My question is, would it be a better idea for her to use the pill or get the shot?
Between the shot and the pill? The pill. However, she needs to talk to her doctor so they can discuss the other birth control methods that will be right for her. I'm a fan of the ring.Quote:
I know with the pill you have to take it for a month before it actually kicks in right?
No, a week. After a week, she's protected.As long as she's on birth control and you have condoms, the chances of pregnancy will be border-line zero.
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Alright thanks alot to the both of you. We both are taking alot of precaution because while we want to have sex we DO NOT want any kids running around, we've got good heads on our shoulders and i just thought i would come here for the extra advice. So thanks alot.By the way Star your pretty much my new hero for having that avatar. That is "our movie" (My girlfriend and I) and we talk about it and do impressions from it still to do this day haha.
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Well, what can I say? I do it for the children. :sunglasses:
My boyfriend and I absolutely love the movie also. Decided to show that movie love. Bitches runnin' wild! :smile:
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Originally Posted By: Virtual_StarWell, what can I say? I do it for the children. My boyfriend and I absolutely love the movie also. Decided to show that movie love. Bitches runnin' wild! Haha that scene is hilarious. We have done that scene before with each other, she'l say the lines that Jays girlfriend says and il say Andy's. I do alot of Mooj impressions also (Im actually pretty good) but yeah the movie is great, we were obsessed with it for awhile. "Shit man fuck it" is like our catchphrase for whenever something goes wrong or whenever the time just feels right haha.
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Originally Posted By: Virtual_Star
Well, what can I say? I do it for the children. :sunglasses:
My boyfriend and I absolutely love the movie also. Decided to show that movie love. Bitches runnin' wild! :smile: Oh yeah she was a ho................