I Don't Want To Strangle Him.....

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Hey everyone

Just wondering if anybody has any tips on being able to be with the same person pretty much 24 hours a day without getting at each others throats, you see....

During the school holidays im gonna be here at my bf's house pretty much the whole time (we have a weird relationship). We argue a LOT but theres no chance of us breaking up (well there is but, he loves me too much :grin: and I've learnt to put up with the crap he sends my way hehe). So really, the arguing isn't a problem, it doesnt even strain the relationship. I just think it would be nice not to for once! Even the smallest things get to us now. We always end up on the floor crippled in laughter over the things we argue about after around 10 mins.... but thats not the point.

So any ideas how we can be more tolerable of each other? How we can stop the lil' things from getting to us? Time apart is not an option :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

Any help would be GREATLY appreciated :smile:

have more sex

lol, no really - it's natural to bicker and fight when you're around someone for long periods of time. just try to be more tolerant of each others actions and both try to adapt to each other's personal habits.

I agree with Powerlifter...you do need to adapt to the others habits. I know, I've had to since my bf and I moved in together and it sure wasn't easy! But eventually the little things didn't seem so big anymore and weren't even worth the bickering. You can stop the little things getting to you, but you also have to make sure that the other person can't tell that you're trying to not let them get to you. (if that makes any sense) Even a slight body signal can trigger to the other person that you're annoyed or that you don't like something they are doing.

Thanks for the advice Powerlifter I prefere the more sex solution :grinI was tempted to say that i seem to do all the adapting but i stopped myself.... cuz i realised that i suppose it always seems like that and it probably seems like to him that he is doing all the peace making.Relationships are haaaaaaaard

Thanks Aisy! You have given me somthing to look forward to, the point where we wont bicker over the little things sits and waits patientlyI guess it will take a while but it will be worth it.

lol no problem - i would prefer the more sex part also haha :laughing: