Virginity?

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OK not really sure where to start... Strange as it may seem, I saved my virginity for someone special. Being a male I know this might sound like ridiculous, but I did. It's not that I didn't have chances for sex, I just didn't want to have sex with them. I wanted to love the person first... So, I fell in love, and lost my virginity. But, she was not a virgin. It makes me have strange feelings... She has had sex with a high number for her age I believe, some people would disagree I guess. Anyways, my question is what does it feel like to have sex with a virgin? It bothers me that I saved my virginity but she didn't. I guess it's something I should just get over or whatever, but I truly love her and it REALLY bothers me! Now she's looking for ways to make herself tighter (Ha!) and I'm wondering if she is loose or tight as well! Having no previous experience, I have nothing to judge from and am left with a question mark... Anybody have anything to say about the random crap I just typed? LOL

If you love her, then leave the past where it belongs. In the past.She isn't stretched out or anything, after having babies women's bodies go back to normal. I have never seen a penis the size of a child!!! Relax enjoy it, and love her. My only caution, is that if she has been sexually active, a check up should happen to make sure there is no STIs. Use a condom and be safe.

lol dude I lost my virginity to a chick who wasn't a virgin. I have no regrets about it. In fact I could care less what sex with a virgin feels like.I have a friend who lost her virginity and let me tell ya.. for girls losing their virginity isn't the same as a guy losing theirs. One of my friends took two months before she could really enjoy sex.My experiences on the other hand have been nothing other then enjoyable. I also like not having to worry about whether or not she will regret losing her virginity to me.and honestly.. look at it like this..were the shoe on the other foot. And she was a virgin and you weren't.. you wouldn't really get to enjoy sex because you'd have to worry more about whether your hurting her or not..

Originally Posted By: Nnyyou wouldn't really get to enjoy sex because you'd have to worry more about whether your hurting her or not.. Sorry but you're wrong. It doesn't matter how many times you have sex. If you're not careful or listen to your partner, someone's going to get hurt.

Originally Posted By: bob23 Now she's looking for ways to make herself tighter (Ha!) and I'm wondering if she is loose or tight as well! First of all, why is that so funny? She can very well use the Kegel exercises to help tone her pelvic muscles. And second, what kind of thinking is that? If you love her, what does it matter how her vagina feels in comparison to others? A girl can have sex with many men, but she's not going to be stretched out.Get these silly ideas out of your head and put the past in the past. Enjoy your time with her now and love her for who she is, and not judge her on what she's done.

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Trust me, I was being nice, lol! But I'll try to try, love!  Originally Posted By: RainNightBlueDon't Worry Star, I still like you, in that not awkward, Platonic kind of way I just found that in the other thread. Platonic kind of way, eh? I guess I gotta try harder.

Heh. If you can, I challenge you to try. (However, I'm not going to lie, Being a guy, it isn't all too difficult :p)