ok... well sometimes i get very horny and i hold my penis and press on the head hard. like if you look at a capital "T" my penis would be the vertical line and my hand would be the horizontal line. I press VERY hard. it kind of hurts, but in a good way i suppose. im wondering if this is harmful or not? I kind of imagine that it is... figured id ask..
Is this safe?
The idea makes me wince, but I don't really know if it could cause any damage.
I've seen videos of guys like you who get off on pain. It's horrendous what they do to themselves. Things I could never even imaging doing to myself. I mean bad.
My take on this is that whatever you are doing now, you'll get used to it and it won't be as arousing. To get to the next level, you'll start doing more extreme things.
I'm not picturing what your doing. I will say that we feel pain for a reason... it's our body's way of warning us of harm that is being inflicted on us. Using that as a guild, I would say it's probably not a good idea.
When we, men most especially, are extremely aroused our minds process pain differently. What would normally be painful and would cause us to withdraw (no pun intended) is instead experienced more as mere tactile stimulation. During sex, particularly as we get closer to orgasm the brain begins to process pain differently making it tactile and even pleasurable. The reason hypothesized that the physiology of the body is set up this way is to ensure the passing on of our genes. Evolution it seems favors nothing interrupting coitus. All of which is why you will now see videos of guys willingly getting a Mexican hat dance done on their nuts... the brain processes pain differently when sexually aroused.
Now take this knowledge and apply it to your sexual activities with a bit more caution.
For more reading on this and other related subjects look at the book Bonk.
There is no punishment. There is no reward. There are only consequences.