Ok so I just moved into my college dorm yesterday and it was an awesome experience!BUT. I know that this question has been asked on these forums before but reading the post topics are just not enough because I feel that I have to voice my concern and problem on here because COLLEGE IS a new experience!((I still can't believe that I've been on these forums since I was thirteen....lol))Anyway, my question is, how can I find time to jack off?My roomie during the day might be out with his friends and I would be the only one in the room with PLENTY of time. Although that isn't satisfying enough for me, my favorite time (which is I assume every other guy's time) is to jack off at night, but my roomie is sleeping and I can be sometimes a very vocal person and the lube I use makes lots of squishy noises).I would jerk off in the showers but either some guys are showering or I am by myself and I feel that every time someone comes into the bathroom, I have to stop because usually I am used to the privacy of my own room back at home. I don't know, it's like I don't want anyone near me even though they don't know that I'm masturbating. Anyone know solutions? What did you do in college when you felt the urge to jack off without the interruption from others?
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Maybe get real good at being quiet at night then? :PSeriously though you might have to just take a chance doing it in the day instead and change your schedule, lock the doors lol!College is about change!I cant say I have personal experience, as in England you dont get shared dorms, its single rooms and everybody has a lock on the door!
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Hmmm...I'm trying to remember my college experience with this. For the first 2 years, I had a private room. But after that...I think I just had to adjust. You may have your favorite time and your favorite way of doing things, but you probably will just have to face the fact that will have to change. I think I basically either waited until I knew the roomie was out for a while, or I just used the stall in the bathroom. Not optimum, but you grab it where you can and when you can! I never jacked off in the shower because they were communal showers and...well...that was just too risky.You'll figure it out.
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I know some guys come to an agreement with their roommate. You give me my time and I'll give you yours.
This was one of my biggest worries when I began college, as well. I've lived in dorms for the last 2 years and I learned my roommates' class schedules and I knew how to recognize when they would be gone for a while. Like you, I prefer to do the deed right before bed but that's just something that can't usually be done. You'll more than likely find that once school starts, you will be preoccupied with other things and you won't think about it much, if at all. I find that I usually will go days, or even over a week, between jackings. On the other hand, if it just can't wait, you can always work one in while you're in the shower as you had mentioned but you have to be quiet to keep your roommates from suspecting. You may also want to make sure that you trust that your roommates aren't going to be the type of guys who will just whip open the shower curtain on you as a prank. If you're caught in that situation, you will probably never live it down. Another solution here would be to use the bathroom while no one is home and just lock the door. If someone comes home, you can just claim that you were having a bowel movement, but you probably won't even have to explain.My overall recommendation is, just don't do it. Wait until you begin to reach the point where you are getting frequent erections and you are always horny and then wait until you know your roommate is out to get it off your mind.Also, as readytogo mentioned, some roommates come to an agreement. My roommates freshman year did this. We would respect each other's alone time. Sometimes we would announce it to each other "I'm going to go beat off, don't bother me," was a relatively common thing to hear in my suite. After a week or so, it was just another casual event, like microwaving popcorn or taking out the trash.
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I had the same concern and problem when I went to college. I used to wait until my roomie was asleep and just did it quietly. I think It actually added to the excitement of my jack off sessions I think. I was always thinking he was secretly watching or getting off know i was playing with myself. lol weird I know...Anyway, Everyone does it. Everyone knows everyone does it. its just part of relieving the sexual tension that builds up. I just learned to be very quite and enjoy a long slow rub. There were times I just rubbed the underside of the head in a slow circular motion letting all four fingers rub across that spot and closed my eyes and just concentrated on the feeling. I'm telling you, It produced some really intense orgasms and shot a huge load every time. Try that, Try just quietly and slowly rub the underside of the head of your dick until you cum. Don't speed up the rubbing before you cum. The orgasm will make your toes curl up. good luck with finding your personal time.
Oh dorm life. I really miss those days.I lived in the dorm for 2 years. I had a roommate and we have never talked about masturbation. It may be because we are Chinese and it was not something we felt like talking about.Anyway, since we did not mention anything about it, we did not have the "special arrangement" as the others above did.But there was time when he went back home for weekend or vacation. Knowing that he would not be around and when I felt like doing it, I masturbated in my room alone. No problem at all Just try to know his schedule and timetable, you will know when to do the right thing