title says it all. during sex i usually feel like blowing my load after only a minute or so and then i have to slow down or stop or even pull out completely to prolong sex. It's a giant nuisance to me gaheererw. I tried those silly PC muscle workout things but they dont do much of anything. help?!?!?!?
How can i make myself last longer?
What you're doing sounds like the right approach. The idea is that with time your body will become trained to last longer. I think you can be proud of your consideration for your partner, since most men don't even bother slowing down.
There are methods when actually having sex. You could change position, go into oral when you feel like you are going to blow or simply pinch the end of your penis. :] I don't know about the computer techniques and what they are like, please explain!
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have you tried masturbating like a couple hours before you have sex? that'll make u last longer
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Originally Posted By: cooldawg2have you tried masturbating like a couple hours before you have sex? that'll make u last longer hours doesn't make me last longer. masturbating 30 minutes before doesn't. especially if i wasn't with her. i mean the only time i dont go way too fast is if dont wanna do it. like right after i cum. i have no sex drive then so she cant cum. Quote: You could change position, go into oral when you feel like you are going to blow or simply pinch the end of your penis. :] switching positions doesn't help. it's the same thing. thrusting. and who wants to switch positions or go to oral after a minute. I'm just afraid of being the worst sex she'll ever have. right now i'm the only but in the future you know? I mean girls don't even have to do anything to be good at sex. they just sit there and act horny and they're good at it. guys actually have to develop skill and be able to last. Oral wouldn't help even if we did switch since i cum to oral pretty easy. I suck
Originally Posted By: Decius08I mean girls don't even have to do anything to be good at sex. they just sit there and act horny and they're good at it.First of, not all of us fake in bed. And second, we care about our partners just as much as you care about yours.
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Don't put yourself down like that, Decius. She doesn't think you suck, does she?
There's only one real solution to this:
Find yourself a uglier girl! :P
Honestly though, one way to know your partner thinks you are hot as fuck is if he/she blows in like a minute. One way to tell if they think your butt ugly is if they take more than an hour.
Personally ide rater my partner, if it was a guy, cum in like, 5 mins? sounds like a good time....sex sucks if it takes 10 years, unless your partner can cum multiple times, which i can do if im turned on enough.
Originally Posted By: Someone youngHonestly though, one way to know your partner thinks you are hot as fuck is if he/she blows in like a minute. One way to tell if they think your butt ugly is if they take more than an hour.You are seriously pushing my patience. I know you're suffering but you're making it REALLY hard for me to hold any bit of respect for you.Will you please stop spreading that bullshit idea of physical attractivness and just keep it to yourself when you post?
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uhhh, hmmm i guess this would be my department as dictated by alot of members on this board...
but some personal advice i can give u based on my own experiences, and things that wont hurt u in any way (health wise)
when masturbating by yourself, find a place in your head where your thinking about something completely different, if you do this correctly you can literally prolong your orgasm...
also dont tighten your cock muscle so much, the harder you squeeze your booty cheeks/pc muscle, the more feeling your going to get...
another trick you could do, that really gets women off, is multiple orgasms.
i can do them, depending on the tightness of a women, if the girl is TOO tight, its difficult for me because of all the feeling, but if shes a good tightness what you do is, just thrust away, and after 1 min or two, pull out, bust your load on her stomach, or back, put on another condom (its perticularly important to not cum inside of her, as this increases your pleasure, and therefore, causes ur dick to go soft faster, not to mention your not supposed to cum inna condom more than once.)
put on another condom, if u have to go semi slow so that you wont still have shots of pleasure flowing through your body, then do it. but put another condom on, and fuck her again, you should last at least 30 minutes, if u start out going slow and building up the speed...
practice this technique masturbating before you do it to her for real. last thing u want is to force urself to cum, only to have to sit there and try to re arouse yourself....
hope this works, and let me know how it goes, or if u need any more help/
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