So I'm going to ask this chick out on Friday.....
I'm not entirely sure how I'm going to do it. She's coming over for movies and such and I've been meaning to ask her out, but I haven't had the nerve and I'm clueless how I should.
I was thinking a rose and some cheesy line like" Would you give me the honor, nay, the pleasure, of going out with me?"
That kinda phrase screams "me". But honestly, I personally feel, its my way of putting myself out there while not being completely emotionally vulnerable to a rejection.
A simple "You wanna hang out sometime?" usually gets the message across while still sounding casual.
It doesn't matter nearly so much how you say it as that you say it. In real life speeches are stutters and strides are stumbles. The smooth, suave, and utterly right line is only found in films (after a scriptwriter has spent a day thinking of it, it has been further refined in a workshop session, and the actor has done a dozen takes).
If that's who you are then definitely use that line. If she doesn't like it then you discovered very quickly into the relationship that it's not going to work!
Originally Posted By: kmrobins
If that's who you are then definitely use that line. If she doesn't like it then you discovered very quickly into the relationship that it's not going to work!
I'd stick with what kmrobins says!! Ask it how you would ask it, don't tailor it. If she doesn't like it then it'll give you a little insight!
Well, we already hang out. But I wanna ask her out.
I like the line, duder. However, be a salesman, as in, not leaving the question open to a no.
Instead, let it be known that she is going to do it :smile:
"Yeah, so, here's what's gonna happen. We're gonna hang out *at such and such a place*." Make it an interesting "date". Not an interview.
When you get the date:
Don't ask the, "so, where did you grow up? Go to school? work, experience, name, serial number blah blah." That's the first step towards a boring date. Instead ask her something she's never been asked before,
"what's something you're extremely passionate about"?
"What did you want to be when you grew up?? AND YOU CAN'T SAY A PRINCESS"!
Things like that.
But getting back to the initial ask out, the key is to just pull the trigger. The worst she can say is, "no". And she'll do it in a polite way -- since you two are on good terms; watching movies and such. Also, if you can do it on a high note, as in after a joke, or something, that'll help.
You: *cracks joke*
Her: *laughs*
You: haha you seem pretty cool, we're going to hang out sometime. I need to go to the mall and get a new shirt, you're gonna come with me and be my girlfriend for five minutes and help me pick it out -- but just so you know...you're not getting anything out of me; I'm not easy!!
Just be creative, mang.
Good luck!!
