Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years we started out using condoms
but we have been having sex w/out a condom for around a year ( I know crazy I'm in the process of getting her on birth control now) But If I have sex with a condom I cannot have an orgasm we will have sex for 2 to 3 hours and I can't cum(I wear magnums) but if we don't use a condom I'll cum fairly quickly anywhere from 5 to 45 min.
If I don't have an orgasm or somewhat good sex for longer than a week I start to have hot flashes like if I see attractive women I will get extremely hot almost to the point of losing consciousness. As well as like I don't wanna sound crazy but I'll see things
like me having sex with them and how they will react as well as undressing them (almost a daydream)and if I go longer than that sexually deviant behavior starts to attract me (i.e. extreme S&M, bondage, voyeurism damn near everything you can think of even pedophilia starts to bother me. What the fuck is wrong with me
and like if I have to wait that long for sex if me and my girl have sex I can't stop like my penis will get raw from the friction & I'll keep going in pain .
So my questions are:
1)Why can't I cum with a condom
- Why after a while sexually deviant behavior starts to attract me?
- my penis will get raw from the friction & I'll keep going and endure the pain