Nom nom nom, so, I have an ex boyfriend, as of last year and a few months-- Anyways, he has recently told me that I may get to have another shot with him, yes that's all fine and good, except for one thing, he always seems to change his sexuality... Like right now he claims to be straight. But if he was, why would he be intimate with me?Yeah... There's my question, because he says he is NOT bisexual, but straight, even though he says I have another shot with him and him being intimate with me.
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This is bugging me...
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Hrm doubt it will for me, I'm content in the state I am in now...But he fluctuates, yet is always the same, so maybe he just needs that outward appearance? I don't know.
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His actual sexuality may not change but how he views it may.
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I don't know about your ex but I can tell you my sexuality fluctuates back and forth. For about six months I'm totally into guys and then for about the next six months I'm totally into girls. It goes back and forth and has for many, many years and it's a total pain the ass. I wish I could pick one and stay with it but it doesn't seem to work that way.It's a real thing and not something anyone gay or straight can understand or appreciate and it makes for a kind of lonely, frustrating existence in which everyone thinks your a liar.
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Okay, so this is an internal struggle?Because I know that he says he likes alot of guys in that way, but, also sits there and calls himself straight.It's awkward listening to him talk about it, because I really don't get it.And sorry for the odd post, it was bugging me and none of my friends were any help, so I felt comfortable asking a group of people who have helped me in my past.
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I did not know that, if this is true maybe I shouldn't consider myself being 'gay' but rather 'a flexable individual' as my ex so plainly stated.Hrm... Believe it or not, I don't know any homosexuals that fit the gay stereotypes...
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Originally Posted By: Reen TarHrm... Believe it or not, I don't know any homosexuals that fit the gay stereotypes... As you get older you will run into a few, but they truly are far and inbetween. Some day people will realize we are just as "normal" (I use normal in quotes because really what the hell IS normal anymore??? LoL) as the straight people next to us.
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Ookay, today was awesome, for anyone who cares. XDDid a photoshoot, my friend wanted to incorporate homosexuality into some of her work, me and Jon volunteered.We looked very intimate in the pictures, and yu could tell there was sexual tension...The shoot was over, we went back to my gym to work out, did that for a while, went up into my closet, because I sleep in there, and layed down... Yeah, and we made out, that's such an awkward sounding term...Again, he's a confusing guy. -nod-Straight but Flexable.
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He doesn't seem to be backward in coming forward!
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Originally Posted By: IneligibleHe doesn't seem to be backward in coming forward! What does that mean? Haha.
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It means he's not hiding in the background, avoiding the limelight.
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Haha, I see... It's not like he was doing anything, it was all me. But I guess him not stopping me or anything counts as not hiding in the background.I think I will ask him out this time... Just not now, I need to be level headed when I do.
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You know him better than any of us.
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Or at least I hope I do. XDNo, lol, yeah, I know what you mean, I'm going to ask him, maybe tomorrow, not sure yet... He's supposed to come over then anyways.
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Good luck!
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Awesome thanks!
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So he is coming over again today, in like, 10 minutes, so Imma go get ready or something. :p
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Wash in all the important places.
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Originally Posted By: OldFolksWash in all the important places. Omg. XDWhy do you need to say that kind of stuff to me? I'm a CHILD!No not really, lol.But you syaing that got my mind racing... Thanks. XD
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So... Jon brought it up today... And- Well, he was confused as to why I kissed him, as if it wasn't obvious that he wanted me to, and told me he would be happy if I didn't kiss him again, so, now I'm a bit depressed, needless to say, I did NOT ask him out again...