Recently I have been experiencing a problem with myself. I'm really not sure if i'm attractive or not.Sometimes I will look in the mirror and think I am, then sometimes when i'm out I just feel totally different about myself. Also sometimes a nice girl will look at me and i'll get a feeling that she's interested, but i'm too protective about my looks to even try and follow up on it.Has anyone else felt like this? It's really annoying and I need a bit of help.
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I really don't know
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I have this same problem, man. No matter how often I hear it from my friend that I'm good looking, I still have this nagging feeling in the back of my mind that I'm not. What I've found, however, is that girls are a lot less superficial than guys are. A decent looking guy can have a smoking girl find him attractive as long as he exudes attractive qualities. In other words, he's funny, fun to be around, at times caring, but isn't a pussy, etc. There are a lot of things you most likely have going for you and you probably don't even realize it. So the next time you see a girl "eye-ing" you, pull the trigger and go up and say hi. You don't need a smooth line; no mirror in jeans, no she didn't fall from heaven. None of that b.s. The best way to feel better about yourself is to have success in your life -- not just with the ladies, either. Look around at what you have, friends, family, job, school, and if you're succeeding in those other areas, there's absolutely NO reason not to feel good about yourself. Think like that and you WILL exude the attractive qualities that people find attractive. Just saying..is all.
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Beauty is in the beholder however its a persons quality's which cause them to be beautiful... as well as there looks !!(in my opinion there personality makes them beautiful alone and supersedes looks anyyday !!)
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okay well, to start with, everyone is going to say that most people feel like that, and they do.Secondly, we are more critical about ourselves than anyone else. If you looked like someone else, and they like you, you wouldn't change your opinion. but try to follow up on getting a girl, because when you have her, you will feel better about yourself, to know that she fancies your pants off will boost your confidence.