So a couple of weeks ago my girlfriend and I decided to have sex. We both had never done it before. I was VERY nervous and my nervousness has not subsided over the past couple of weeks (we've had sex aout four times since then.)One of two things keeps happening: I either can't stay hard or I cum to fast. I'm only a 17 year old guy, and I get erections just from being around her, and she knows this. Once we are about to have sex though, I just get SO nervous and I don't really know how to handle it, resulting in me either cumming too fast or not being able to get or stay hard.I really like this girl and she really likes me. She even doesn't care about the problems we have during sex. She says I will be fine after a while. I love her so much and even though she is so caring and understanding, I still get nervous because even if SHE doesn't care about my sexual problems, I do.I've read stuff non-stop since we had sex to see if there was anything I could do to get rid of my nervousness, but all of those things, for me, are easier said than done. I figured I could ask some people here, maybe you guys know how I could become less nervous when we are going to have sex?
Nerves are quite normal at first, and I think familiarity and experience is the best way of dealing with them. In other words, try not to worry, because the nerve problems will indeed fade with time.
practice makes perfect...stock up on condoms, buy stock in lifestyles or trojans, and go to town man
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Agreed. Best way to fight this is to just get used to it.And who says after you cum once you gotta stop, eh? winks