Before my girlfriend and I got together she had a one night stand (drunk) when she was 16. No Condom....We have been together for years now (3) and I know its going to sound stupid but I've sat back and thought about close calls we've had and remembered a few things that were kinda weird about pregnancy.One time we were all drunk with a bunch of friends and we were talking about Abortions (we were 16/17) and she jumped up and said " nope you dont need parents to be there, they dont need to know about it" and were like "wow how do you know? " and shes like "Ive had one!!!" were like WTF???? and then shes like "JUST JOKING" and laughed really hard..Why would she say this?Anyways fast forward to tonight, I asked her about it and said I was fine with it and I would love to help her through it if she needs me and if she did indeed have one done.She said No I havent.I asked her a few more times and mentioned what she said when she was drunk and shes like "well no I havent , i dont know why I said that I cant remember"Well then she said something that was weird (maybe I just asked so many times that she didnt know what to say)But she said " I guess the only way I could of did it was if it was one of those "tragic events where you just put behind you and loose memory of it"..Kinda weird if you asked me but then I again I asked alot of times so maybe she just said that because what else what she supposed to say, I was like not taking no for an answerIt really doesnt matter to me but I'd kinda like to know , ya know what I mean?Thanks guys
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Did she have an abortion?
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Well, you've asked her, and she's said no. Whether you believe her or not, I think you need to let the matter rest. Asking her again and again is effectively telling her you don't trust her.
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Yea I know:(Im talking to her now and she says she doesnt think she did but then she talks about she may have blocked it out her life and forgot about it?Like what the fuk?
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That might be her dropping a hint, saying she had one but she'd rather just keep it blocked out of her mind.