I am in a steady relationship. We have a decent sex life, however the main problem in bed with us seems to be my fault.I can only ever orgasm if im in the "doggie style" position and using a vibrator at the same time of penetration. I have tried to orgasm in different positions with him but can't. I have tried to orgasm without the use of a vibrator on my clitoris but can't. Even during masturbation i can not orgasm without the use of my vibrator. I feel bad for him having to have this "add on" in bed every time. And also being in that position at the end. It must be getting boring for him...any one have a suggestion as to how i can orgasm with him without that position or use of tools?....
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Need help
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well i can certainly appreciate your view on this, and your reply, but the thing of it is, is that before i never used vibrators, or any toys for that matter, and went several years without orgasming. And my current boyfriend and i were together sexually for quite a few months with me not being able to orgasm. And the only way i can now is with a vibrator. The first time i was ever able to orgasm during sex was with him and the vibrator. So now when he wants to have sex i want to be able to get off as well, otherwise i can't do it as frequently as he wants because im not getting anything out of it.
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thanks Rad, i appreciate your opinion!
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Eh, similar issue here. I think we just have to accept that it is how our body works, we just need a bit more stimulation to get there.
Like Rad said, it is ALL about communication! If he is ok with it, you should be too.
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I think your like me, you need to have your clit stimulated to orgasm. some positions seem to stilmulate the clit better than others. Doggie is one of them doesnt seem to do a good job of it. Some i like with doggie is if he dosent put it in and goes like hes penitrating me but hes just kinda in the grove. so hes more rubbing on my clit than anything.