To consider going out with your best friend's ex? Let me explain why i'm wondering about this - my friend... he just broke up with his ex, who we will call J, after a 2.5 month relationship. now, i've been going to school with J since I started in Kindergarten. But at this point in time we don't have a very strong friendship, but I do talk to her enough. They've only been apart for under a week. it'll be a week on tuesday/wednesday. And i'm not sure if J has a new bf or not. Do I go for it, or no?
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Is it wrong?
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No.There are plenty of other women out there.
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Is this girl really worth your friendship?
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Yea, that 1st point is why I don't want to. But like I said, its not the strongest of friendships, so she probably doesn't. Rad: No.
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Rad, this male code is you NEVER go out with a best friends ex. Which is why I was asking if it was right, considering i've known her for 10, almost 11 years. But today In class, my friend was flipping through old texts, and I looked over and saw one from J, saying "how do you know I have moved on?" So now I'm confused.(Sorry for the bump)
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Bump. Will merge double post after.Anyways - Schools out now, I didn't quite get to talking to her, I have about no methods of talking to her, unless she accepts my facebook invite. Should I leave it then? I won't see her all summer, I'll have little to no contact..