my bestfriend has been dating this really nice guy for almost 8 months now. They briefly dated in early september and broke up after a few weeks. we had heard from a freind that he said "i have to watch out. her dad might bomb me." She took it very personally becasue her father is from pakistan and she has always been sensitive about it. In the beging of there "new" relationship I was very angry that she was putting herself back into a relationship with this jerk. after 2 or 3 motnhs I began to grow comfortable with him and my other friends began to actually like him. Things were great and fine until recently. Everytime he calls her her mood does a complete 360 and she instantly a diffrent person. it seems as if he comtrols her. my friends and I have been getting concerned. I dont think he would be abusing her or anything but I'm not 100% sure of that. i dont want to intrude into her relationship but I dont want to see her hurt.Should I do something?
Should I Do Something?
Christine & AJ
December 6, 2004
What can you do? Presumably she's an adult and has the right to make her own decisions.
If she wants to be with him...all you can do, is be a shoulder for her.
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." -- Theodor Seuss Geisel