Hey everyone,
So, after having broken up with my girlfriend late March, I have come to be interested in this other girl (let's call her N) who is an international student from Morocco (my mom is from Morocco, so you can see how I would naturally move in her direction). Well, since the time I liked her until the time summer started and we all went our separate ways, I have been constantly trying to get in a relationship with her. Needless to say, I've talked to plenty of people about it, so everyone is pretty much on my side, and there's little doubt that she knows that I am interested in her. She feels unsure about it as of now, so I was planning on asking her out on a date after the summer (she's in Morocco, of course). Now, while she's in Morocco, I don't get a lot of a chance to talk to her, so I'm pretty much just waiting until the summer ends.
There's only one problem however. There is another girl with whom I've talked a lot about N (let's call her K). So, K and I clicked very well as friends, and I had a slight infatuation with her at the beginning of our friendship, but I decided to stay friends. The thing is that K and I talk a lot with each other, and lately, we have been getting very close, sometimes even closer than friends. I talked with her about this recently, and she's said she's noticed this, and as of now, if I asked her out on a date, she would happily go on a date with me. That's actually a big deal considering she's never really been interested in a guy before (she's straight). I have more than two months before I go back to school, and I am already noticing this trend toward K.
Now, here's the problem, I still like N, and I really want to have something to do with her, but K and I get along so well, it seems like I should forget about N and go with K. Now, there are a few issues with being with K. She's not of the same religion, and she's Indian. Nothing wrong with the latter; I just think my mom would feel a bit weird about it. I do have a feeling however that if I pick one, there's no chance in hell I could ever get with the other (if I'm having problems with the first). I hate having to make a choice.
My decision now is basically not to take action on anything and just let things flow the way they are. If it means that I'm single for another year, then I guess that is how things are supposed to be. I know it seems like I already made up my mind, but I'm still pretty confused. What are your opinions on this?