why does it take so much lube if your going to have anal sex or put something in your butt because it will hurt if it doesnt hurt when you go to the bathroom and something comes out?
A little gross but..
Yea, I never got why a penis suposedly hurts so bad, but what's the difference between a penis and a big turd? I've had turds a lot bigger than my penis that didn't hurt at all, and I have a little-below-average penis, so it's not small or anything.
Btw, I don't think this goes in the MAsturbation forum.
IT IS because you can't control your sphincter during anal sex. plus turds are way softer
just try relaxing and when they go to insert whatever it is or maybe, then actually try to take a shit so long as you clean yourself out really good before then you won't make a mess or leave anything that stinks on anyone or anything thats the best way I found to do it when we (me and my girlfriend) have anal stimulation during sex...oh yes use plenty of lube!!!!
"Put both index fingers on either sides, and apply pressure inwardly"
Well theres a couple of things to consider...
Don't forget that your average turd is somewhat lubricated anyway...hene the requirement to wipe after.
Also I tend to think of the anal sphincter as a valve. Stuff is only meant to go through it one way. The important thing to remember is that if you try and force something through a valve the wrong way, you'l eounter resistance. Another thing to remember is that if you try too hard, you may break the valve, meaning stuff can leak out!
What sadbuttrue said is correct. Plus a few other things to consider:
The anus has two layers of muscles that control the opening. The outer layer you can consciously control the tightness of, but squeezing your sphincter. The upper inner sphincter muscle is involuntarily controlled by the brain - you can't consciously change this muscle. This is the one that won't relax easily and causes the pain when you insert something into the anus, at least for the first minute or two until it gets used to the object, and relaxes and stretched.
When you go to poop, there are unconcious movements of the bowel muscles in the rectum to push the poop out towards the anus, and part of that process involves relaxing the inner upper anus sphincter. Once that sphincter muscle relaxes, it won't hurt when large objects, including large turds, move through it.
So that's why it doesn't hurt when you make a large tird, but it can hurt when putting something up your butt that is just as large.
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