Ive always had trouble with putting myself out there. You know what i mean? I Havent had a girlfreind yet but i have done stuff with a women, usually after i have had a couple of drinks. I really dont do much but stand there and the girl starts making out with me. And it goes on after that, but i never have sex. Im really not into having sex with 50 women. Especially not when im tipsy or drunk. But i always have had problem talking to girls that i like. They usually come up to me, start a conversation, but i really dont know how to "spit game", or maybe even talk for that matter. Damn, i feel hopeless with women sometimes. Still love my life and all, not gonna let that one area destroy me. Wow, im an idiot. lol
Venting, need some feedback por favor.
Hi hammertime, there's no need to be suave and smooth and have all the right lines. It only happens in fiction, and if it happened in real life it would come across as false and insincere. Be yourself.
A good principle in conversation is to ask her about herself, her life, what she likes and dislikes, etc. Most people like talking about themselves.
I think part of the problem is you don't have much confidence in yourself. You can do it! You're worth talking to!
Yea. Tryin to take care of the confidence part with the gym. Although im not fat.
It's good to try to improve yourself, but don't put off talking to girls until you are satisfied with the gym results. You're good now!