I have a new girlfriend, well a young woman I am dating now... and I have some concerns that I am not sure how to approach.She is a virgin and had a vow to hold that until marriage, but now that she is with me she says she is okay with losing it. Now normally I would just be hey how can I turn down sex with a young sexy virgin woman... well I care about her and I am not sure how to approach the topic of sex b/c I have corrupted her it seems, and she is overly sexual towards me. Anyone have any advice on how I should act and approach her?
My new girlfriend...
Big respect to you for having some thought in the matter!Dunno - I guess if she wants it, give it to her.Might be worth asking what her family beliefs are and if they'd be angry at her, and if she'd be angry at herself.
have you heard of the good catholic school girl who breaks out into the world and turns out to be the most horny and mischief maker of them all? Well that might be what you have, and trust me I know, went to an all girls high school and 90% gained a lot of experience very quickly after graduation. Once they begin to experience something everything subconsciously is so shocking (in that it is new) that girls (and guys) seem to lose their sense of judgement and dont know their limits. This isnt just sex but things which were resticted or off limited before. And yes this may appear to be a steriotype but many elements I find are true. It might be best to hold back for a while, you said it was a 'new' relationship, how new? However be careful how you approach her about it, she might think you dont want to be with her or arent attracted to her. Focus on how much you like her, that you wouldnt be able to morally think it was right by your own standards on yourself. You sound like a great guy, most guys just take advantage of girls that dont know better. Im also saying this cause my boyfiend who I had sex with for the first time held off for me and Im glad he did
Holding off for a while will show her that you really care and are really invested in this relationship.
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