How to ask for something nicely XD

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ok i have been a lurker on this forum for quite some time and finally i have a question which despite my searching i couldnt find the answer to.

so basically my girlfriend is going to be coming back from korea (she is korea) in about 2 weeks and shes been away for about a month and a half so i have been missing her a lot.

Anyway we are planning on her staying the night at my place soon after she gets back and i was wondering how i might bring up the topic of recieving a handjob and giving if she'd let me haha. its just koreans (or atleast all the koreans i know) are very conservative and she has said definitely no sex until after marriage and i respect that. However you can only make out for so long and im just not sure as to how i would approach the topic of her touching my penis XD its not exactly the most romantic thing to talk about haha.

so would i talk about it openly or just like during a make out session gently move her hand to the place in question? haha
any advice much appreciated! particularly stories XD

The prudent thing to do would be to discuss it. By letting her know you want a little more but don't expect to go all the way she might be more willing to give something more.The problem with just putting her hand there, without discussion of any sort, is that she may take it as a prelude to intercourse and therefor withdraw. If you really want this and I'm sure you do, I would let her know you want it but reassure her that it's not your intention to go any further than the boundaries you have discussed and agreed to.As for discussing this with her I wouldn't sit down and have a "serious talk." I would try to keep it light and playful but with enough seriousness and attentiveness to convey your serious and really want this.