and my boyfriends black.I always tell my mom everything, but anytime I ever bring up liking a black guy she freaks out and is in a bad mood the rest of the day. I just wish I could have him over and not have to lie to my parents about where im going (cause they wont let me hang out with him) or what im up to. Its too much...Any ideas on how to make my parents just chill out about it?
My parents are BIG racists
Life is a race, and im beating you to death.
At least your dad doesn't threaten to kill the poor guy.My brothers sent out a hit for this guy before I even started dating him. And he's not even white. He's latino. If it weren't for my sister it'd be much harder on me because the motto used to be "if he/she is not black, we're disowning you". But they like her too much. And they eventually learned to like him.I suggest you do what Papi said and have him meet them. Hopefully they're not the kind of people to be blatantly rude to people's faces. And just be decent and push their prejudices aside. If you really like him and they love you like they should then they'll respect your preferences.
"Isso é como nós latinas/meninas pretas fazemos. Vá ou flua.. ya digg?"
Yeah, it will show them for being so uneccessarily racist. I hope it all works out my dear.
Yeah my dad is that way. my current boyfriend is black also. try and talk to them about how much he means to you and that he makes you happy ect. Tell them how you feel about them not wanting anything to do with him because hes black and its about his personalitly and ect..