Well... I met a girl, and our date when very well. And, later toward the evening we went to park the car... and started getting physical. Well, while I was down on her with my mouth, just going to town, she started reaching for my pants—they are well protected with several buttons, a lock, alarm, and security light, so I had to eventually take them off myself—and started pumping my... erm... penis.But as with the last time I tried going that far with a girl, my erm... penis... did nothing Granted, I masturbated that morning not expecting us to go that far on our first date and not wanting that uncomfortable erection that happens when you kiss or hold hands if you ain't let out in two days... but I ended up getting that anyway. In fact, much of the date I was worried about keeping it down, since it was always wanting to pop up at the worst times! But, alas! when it was needed, it was least wanting to come out I even grabbed a hold of it myself a few times and starting fiddling with it, since I know where it is most sensitive, but even that did nothing.So, now I am worried what the hell is wrong with me? I have no problem popping one while standing out in the middle of public with thin dress pants on, but when me and me lady get down to business, well, my LittleQ just doesn't seem to do anything. It cannot be physical... but I don't know how it can be mental. Anyway, we are getting together next weekend, and I plan on not touching the little bugger till I see her again. Hopefully holding out that long will get it up no matter what is in my head spinning. Not sure why I am sharing... maybe people have a suggestion?LQ
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Not again... :-(
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try not to be so nervous. its all in your head. mind the pun. lol.
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Easier said than done, of that I can assure you. I tried relaxing, and thought I felt it get a little bigger, but was so nervous it just went away right away. What if this never changes? Worst of all, my bugger ain't that big to begin with, let alone when it just sits there like a dead damn fish... so I don't know what she thinks of me
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if you dont ever think youll ever change, you wont.
keep thinking positive hon.
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ok, one question..."my pants—they are well protected with several buttons, a lock, alarm, and security light" what? perhaps time for some new pants?
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Well... they aren't that well protected
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I saw this and had to reply to you. You sould so distraught over it.
I, being a female, have had many guys do this. It just happens. Usually the third time they try it works. And I always tell them that first time that it is going to happen. They talk all this pep about their little guy and then he doesn't work. I find it rather cute actually. It means you like her and care what she thinks. It is a mentality issue. You will conqure it. I have faith in your little dude!
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Since this does not seem too far down the list yet, I do have stuff to add.Me and that girl did move in together, and she did get a job, and our relationship is working well. However, still this physical problem of mine We give each other hand jobs and oral from time to time... but whenever we try to go in for the real deal, my little bugger just withers and dies I don't know why I cannot keep the dang thing hard long enough. Maybe once we start exercising I'll be better off, but I am still worried!Short of taking drugs, what else can I do? LQ
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maybe it's just nerves?Perhaps you're worrying about it so much you scare it away?If it works fine for everything but, I'd say it's a mental thing.
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From what I've read in this thread, I concure with RNB. It's nerves.Let it happen, don't try to make it happen.
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I feel bad for you.. That's really embarassing. Maybe you should go see your doctor and see if there is anything really wrong?