Exhibitionism/should i worry?

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Hi I'm new here...
This question is mostly for females, but anyone with some experience/insight in these issues is welcome to answer. (please do!!)

Here's the question I have:
Girls, if your partner recently revealed to you that (in the past he says, not anymore..hmm) he has jacked off/stripped in strange places like malls-(in public view, not the bathroom), on the side of the freeway in full view, in office buildings, with the window shades open, driving down the road without clothes on while j/o, etc etc, (he was with his ex-fiance also at the time)
....How would you feel about this?
He tells me it was when he was younger and now only very occasionally j/o in the car while driving. I'm worried that he may still be doing these things and just isn't telling me. He also only likes to view only voyeur/exhibition type porn.
Secondly, as far as exhibitionism goes, how far is too far?
I was reading about it and it's classified as a paraphilia (mental health disorder). I'm a little worried.
Thanks in advance!

yeah, i dunno,it grosses me out that people parade their nudity in public cause there are children around.he sounds quite extreme with regards his behaviour.dont go by what i say,cause it's my opinion,but i find it messed up.

not that i'm a pro by any means, but i'm a Psych. major and from what you said i wouldn't worry about it. first off, you gotta trust him. i've done a couple of those things and do enjoy being watched. it's been a while for me as well, but i have masturbated while driving a couple times, though i was clothed. as far as the window shades open, that's perfectly legal if i understand correctly. your on your own private property. it becomes a problem if you're intentionally standing there showing yourself off.anyway i wouldn't worry about it. as long as it isn't to the point of getting in real trouble or to the point of obssession. besides, we're all voyeurs/exhibitionists to some extent, and more so today ("reality" shows, and just tv and movies in general if you think abou it). nudity is nothing to ever be ashamed of, although there are those who are scared of themselves and their own body who will tell you to be. plus you could have some fun with this and tell him you'd like to watch him masturbate.....or better yet, just tell him to..or masturbate together, that's really exciting!!!...could really turn it into something fun..you might find you enjoy watching/being watched as well! good luck!

Its the feeling you get. Knowing your doing something you shouldan't and doing it anyway can give you a real buzz.I've ran through the middle of a village naked along with 10 of my good mates on new years eve when it was snowing, then knocking on peoples doors and nicking stuff. It felt great, didn't even notice it was sub zero outside Yesterday i went to Alton Towers, one of the uks best theme parks. When on the rapids ride i was there laying over the middle of the ride with my trousers down bareing all to the other guests I remember where the rapids goes underground, theres a walkway up there and a couple of people were looking down, i bet they saw more than they bargained for Also, the ride takes pics at certain times and one of the pics you could see my bottom. Result good fun.

Exhibitionism is more of a thrill thing than a sexual thing. Kinda like streaking - do they do it to arouse people, or for shock value? Of course, I have to admit, that was rather fun, but that's another story

Thanks so far for the responses all. There really isn't much information about this stuff on the net, so it's nice to read other people's thoughts/experiences. I hope more people can post on this topic.