through stretching I've finally fully retracted while flaccid. Now, could I get an erection while it is fully retracted without there being problems or should I stretch enough that I can pull it all the way back while hard? I know I can only get a little over half way down the head when I'm hard, but thats the thickest part so if I was already past that part to begin with wouldn't it be the same thing?
You want to avoid getting hard with it retracted until you know you can get it back over the head. Otherwise it can get stuck there and feel like a tourniquet. (If that happens, squeeze the head hard and you should be able to get it back.)
The safe thing to do it get hard first, then try retracting, and do more stretching until you can get it over the head that way.
You've made great progress!
Okay, I figured there would be consequences. Well, I'm not sure how far a long I've come but lets hope it doesn't take too much longer. ;]
Originally Posted By: rockedOkay, I figured there would be consequences. Well, I'm not sure how far a long I've come but lets hope it doesn't take too much longer. ;]
Well, I haven't really made much progress. Haven't gotten any further down when erect. Can I have sex with no problems? Am I going to be really sensitive if I do, even if only half the head is exposed? Shes ready..I want to be ready too.
Can I have sex with no problems?
There is the potential that the foreskin will get forced back behind the head essentially getting stuck there. If it does, you'll need to lose the erection to get it back, which in itself can be difficult as it can trap the blood in the head not allowing the head to reduce in size. Thisa is all dependednt of how tight you are.
Second, ther is alway the potential of the forskingetting forcefully pushed back and the frenulum tearing. Not the end of the world, but a bit frightening and uncomfortable.
So what should I do? She said she wants to do it. Should foreplay be the way to go or what? that little piece of skin (fre) is really stretched to its limits when flaccid so I'm not sure how much further its going when erect.
it doesnt really hurt, its just too tight for it to move down. the first time i tried sex i felt like it was hurting at the base of the shaft like there was too much pressure but i think it was because i wasnt hard enough...