Okay, I don't know if this is the correct place to post this, but I'm a male and it involves my genitalia, so I figure... why not.
Anyway, whenever I masturbate or have sex, just like in the thread title, I don't orgasm. I ejaculate, but don't orgasm. For the longest time I thought this was normal, at least for me. I thought that I was orgasming because I feel an immense sense of release when I ejaculate.
But then my ex was giving me oral sex and I orgasmed for real. It was unlike anything I'd ever felt before, and I immediately knew that this was a real orgasm, and what I thought was an orgasm for the longest time was just the feeling of me ejaculating.
I'm wondering if anyone has a similar problem, or if anyone has any ideas on how to orgasm when I masturbate or have sex. I do know that the best place to concentrate while masturbating is the head of my penis, but still, that only leads me to cum, not to orgasm.
I am a 20 year old male, 7" penis. Can anyone help or relate?