Okay... so me and my lady friend, i.e., the girl I am crazy for and am moving in with! , have been doing a lot of fooling around lately. She is not a virgin, though I was when we met... but am not sure where it stands now, or what moves to take from here. She told me that she usually waits three months to have sex, however.Our first date I gave her oral. Then she came to visit me and stayed over for three nights. She has given me several hand jobs and a couple blow jobs... never to cumming though, since it takes me FOREVER to friggen cum, so she saves the cumming thing for the hand jobs... and switches hands many times throughout . Anyway... we were going 69 style um... last night I think... and I turned around to start kissing her and felt my dick rubbing around by her vaginal area. Then I started to rub it up and down between her lips and slipped it in (no condom ). I pushed it around a little then pulled out because I think I lost my erection (see other posts by me on my inability to keep hard ). Then I rubbed it around there some more and slipped it in again... this time it was harder... and I started thrusting. Then I pulled out again and she asked, "Why'd you pull out?" I said "I don't know..." and just started kissing her. Anyway... we worked ourselves into a hand/oral frenzie until we were good and satisfied and then fell asleep.So, I am a little confused. She said she usually waits... but that night it seemed like she really wanted it, and she told me a few days ago that she is so comfortable around me... and with me... like no one else before she has dated. We showered together and everything . Anyway... should I just go buy a condom and pull it out next time we are getting hot and heavy? Should I ask her first? Am I still a virgin? Also, some of you might recall my other worried posts about me having trouble keeping my penis hard, but now I think much of it might be in my head. She was giving me a hand job after work today, and we were sitting, so I could see everything she was doing and see my dick, and although it often did not feel hard (though it felt good ), when I looked at the little buggar, it was bright-eyed and shiny. But it did falter now and again, and then there was that night when we actually moved to intercourse for a little bit when it got all sloppy. I find that most of the time when it does that I have to either urinate, or I am hungry/weak.She wants to get in shape more, so is going to exercise, and I said I would go with her. Would this kind of a plan give me more energy and help me keep it up? Or do I just have to get more and more comfortable around her until I can keep it really hard? And how should this all affect how long we wait before actually doing it doing it... you know, for real?Sorry for all the confusing questions and long message. I hope it made sense, and I really do thank ANYONE who even goes through the trouble of reading it and giving me a little bit of advice.Thanks,LQp.s., I should also add that it's not like it's fish floppy soft... it is just not very strong... but that makes for it being a small penis since it is so small to begin with, and likely makes it difficult to put on a condom, from what I've tried in my own privacy anyway.
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It's Lost?
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Technically you are no longer a virgin. Even though you did not cum, you still had vaginal penetration. Sounds like you guys are about to step to the next level, so I would always have condoms with you just incase.
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I just masturbated this morning, and realised that my penis was not really that hard through most of it. I mean, it was erect, but not like it was about to pop like an overfilled balloon, which it can get sometimes, but not often. So, I am now convinced that my problem is caused by my relentless laziness. I shall now begin exercising to improve this problem, and hopefully make it possible to even use the condom.Thanks for the advice and wise readings LQ