Hey guys, I'm Daniel. I'm 16. Gay and proud. I've been out of the closet for about a month now, ever since I met my first and current boyfriend.Ok so we have been together for a month, and we are very much in love. We do just about everything together, and I trust him so so so much! I trusted him enough to give him my virginity...and that's a big thing for me. AnywayLast week I discovered that the son of the person he lives with...is actually his ex boyfriend. I've also discovered that his ex...wants him back. Now I'm feeling very insecure about this. I trust him so much, it's just his ex that I don't. Should I talk with him about it? Or will it jeopardize our relationship?
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Boyfriend...lives with his Ex!
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talking shouldn't jeapordize anything, you should never be afraid to speak out in a relationship if something is bothering you... the reason people generally argue is because they let things build up, my gf and I are very open with each other about things that have upset us, because neither of us like to argue, so if something is bothering one of us, we talk about it and sort it out communication is always key so, in my opinion, you should talk it out... good luck!
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I just want to say welcome to A2A, Daniel, and to second MDDraco. Talking is crucial and a relationship that is jeopardised rather than strengthened by talking about something like this would have been no relationship at all.Of course, if you talk to him about it and he says it is over and dead, you then need to trust him. Repeated questioning indicates a lack of trust.
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I can't really respond correctly to this post and the others gave some good answers.But... welcome to a2a and if that's you in your avatar you guys are TOO CUTE! Just thought you should know that.
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Yeah it's us. I'm the dark headed one. Thanks for all help. I'm seeing him this weekend so I will definitely bring the issue up. Hopefully it goes well. I'll report back haha.Love yas all
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aren't they cute though! oh em gee!
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lol excuse me I just think they're adorable so booshyaa
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Hahaha aww thanks. I think we're adorable too LOLHere's another one of ushttp://img261.imageshack.us/img261/6364/4573816950a8214687068lrc0.jpgI dunno what I'm so worried about. I'm probably just being paranoid...it'd still be nice for him to know that I'm worried about it.
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omg!! you guys are soooo cute!!!!!i think maybe you should let him know how you feel. even if there isnt anyhting to worry about, you might feel better getting it off your chest. =)
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Good news! I had nothing to worry about. Marcus and I talked for ages about it. He basically said that he's with me for a reason, because he loves me and not Steven. It boosted my mood greatly! Then this morning my mood got ruined...by my mother saying I wasn't allowed to stay at his house anymore...because he gave me a hickey.
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That's great!The second part is not so great. Would it have been all right, I wonder, if you had lots of sex but no hickey?
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Doh! to the hickey... it happens, your mum will get over it eventually lolGlad you got everything worked out... bet you feel better now eh ... hopefully, that'll help you to realise that being open is the best way to be with someone in a relationship we're always here to help when you need us though ... our little forum is a bit like the A-team!! lol ... or maybe that's just me!!! lolI just love it when a plan comes together Hmmm, I just realised maybe there are people around to young for the A-Team, so here's the intro: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIfuaUTH9Y4My edit on the A-team intro...in 2008 crack forum writers were sent to prison for crimes they probably committed, These people promptly escaped from a maximum security asylum, Today still wanted by the government they survive as a2a authors,If you have a problem, if nobody else can help, and if you found us, maybe you can ask: A2A!!!!lol, okay okay... I'm bored, I can't resist it sounded funny in my mind!!
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Probably not, no. We've talked for a bit...and I'm allowed to stay again...it can't happen again though.
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Hes also 16..and yeah mum is pretty understanding...she let me stay the week I told her I was gay...andNow she's letting me stay again. So I'm all happy! Well I am sort of...he doesn't go to my school and I can only see him in the weekends...cries
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Perhaps it's just as well, or you'd never get any work done at school. :smile:
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Maybe lol..miss you Marcus!!!!
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am not so big on relationships but i
ll share smethin with u,i was wit my ex for 3 and a half years when i eventually found out he and his ex hungout alot,it worried me and i said nothing eventually our relationship started to fall apart bcuz i hardly spoke to him and we were always fighting.Hope i didnt bore you.Am jus sayin dat if u love ur boyfriend u should tell him your worries and by rite he should know dat dis troubles u alot.I think dat its great u came out of the closet good for u.P.s plz dont mind my spelling,years of textin did this to me lol