Fingering

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So, tonight, I fingered my gf for the first time :D, but i was kinda confused. Just some info, we are both virgins, and both "genital virgins" (we both have never masturbated other people). I am NOT sure if she has broken her hymen yet. She is 17, and she rides horses very often, and so I think she might have popped her cherry.Anyway, so another piece of info is that we were both clothed, and I had no visual of what I was putting my fingers into :p.So I reach down, and I go for what I think is her vaginal opening. It was VERY wet, and slimey, and kinda made my hands smell like fishy. Does this sound like it was the right "place"?Also, I was rubbing around and pushing inward a little, it was very wet, and then all of a sudden she told me that it hurt. I asked her what was wrong, and she said not to push in so hard (and I was barely pushing). Do any females out there think that she has not broken her hymen, and that was what was hurting her???Thanks a ton

It doesn't seem like you can't know unless you actually see for yourself.If she's masturbated on her own or use tampons, chances are it's not there.

I honestly don't think she masturbates on her own, and also, she uses pads :\

I still don't think it's fully there, but who really knows. Your post doesn't help solve the mystery and she's the only who would know.
She got a nick of pain during fingering, it happens. I wouldn't sweat it too much. Practice makes perfect after all.

You certainly were in the right area.

I'm not sure whether horse-riding does break the hymen as often as claimed.

Ummm, it's not good at all for her vagina to smell like fish. It should either smell good, like B.O, or have no smell at all.

You may not have been down far enough and maybe pinching a flap or something.. It'll become a lot easier once you have some light or those pesky pants come off. Sounds weird, but it's the truth. First timer rubbing around in the dark.. It'll be complicated to get it right.

Ok, so I was doing it again tonight, and I really don't know what I am doing wrong!!!!She said that I didn't have to "go that far" or something, but I was at what felt to be her vaginal opening! So I moved my hand further up towards her clit hood but it wasn't like the wet area, more of a stretchy skin, and so I moved down a little, and after a while, the same thing happened!I still am yet to see her vagina with my eyes, but what I think I have been doing it going to far down (if thats possible).The best example I can find would be here..http://friendfinder.com/images/ffadult/mag/upload/379.2.big.jpgWhere is says "happy juice" and a little below that, I think that is where I am pushing on, but I don't know what it is!(BTW, I am very sorry if it is against the rules to post a picture like that on this website, but it is not of her, it is just a random one I found on google images, and it is for informational purposes)

_and a little below that, I think that is where I am pushing on, but I don't know what it is!
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Her anus.

that actually looks like her vagina.. so ur in the right hole if thats what your wondering, but if it hurts her its bc she is a virgin and u have never done this.. (it hurt my first time with the fingering with a guy.. he didnt know what the heck he was doing either) but just be gentle.. DONT start with 2 fingers, she has to get "loose" and use to it.. ask her before you do anything.. thats all i can think of to ease the pain and make it any better..

Originally Posted By: sdp

_and a little below that, I think that is where I am pushing on, but I don't know what it is!
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Her anus.

Not that far down!

LOL!

Originally Posted By: itsksbut if it hurts her its bc she is a virgin and u have never done this..That's not really true.

so anyone else?

Honey, it's not rocket science. There's only her vaginal opening and her anus. It's not like you can get lost.If it makes it easier for you, why don't you actually go down there and see what you're doing, lol.Do you use lube or at least finger her when it's moist?

Yes, but I think it was a little tooo moist, stuff was literally like all around her legs kinda and it made her underwear wet

That's normal.

i get like that when im super horny. its normal

But it sure is fun! :grin: