Do ALL guys think with their penis?

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I dont think dat u are bieng childish and by rite u should be hurt and jealous,i would be to if i was in ur place.Why dont u tell him dat it bothers u and u are uncomfortable wit it,if he loves u he will DROP IT.Goodluck

I must say that I check out guys all the time when I'm with my boyfriend. It's apart of nature. However, it seems that this guy is just not tactful. You can't stop a guy from checking out another girl (or guy if that is what he likes). It would be selfish and immature for anyone to even try to.You could say something like, "If you're gonna check out girls, can you at least try not to look so desperate?" Whenever I see my boyfriend or any other guy staring at a girl nonstop, I say this to them and you can bet it works every time. I'm sure that will make him act more discreet.

your back with your boyfriend?

My ex did that all the time. it drove me crazy forever. I kinda started to get where it didnt bother me that much because I got to where it was like well shes pretty and hes looking at her but hes coming home with me so i must be better. Im sure thats some kind of mental issue but oh well.

My new bf looks to but not as much, and he looks at everyone not just girls. He just likes people watching. Hes more open about to i think, he says what he thinks about them. That helps because i think guys look at bad stuff and think thats bad not that they are hot

yeah i think its a mental issue more than anyhting. it just makes me feel kinda... ugly

awww your not ugly. but i know the feeling. I know guys hate to talk about stuff like that but have you told him about it.

no i never really said anyhting. and he said to me before that he thought i was the most beautiful woman he's ever known. so that made me smile.

id like to get out of this state of mind that im ugly. i mean, people say im not. but i just "feel" ugly. you know?

Maybe you could do something that makes you feel pretty?You know you're pretty, we know you're pretty, maybe you shoudl do something that makes you feel pretty. Like a spa day or something.Is there anything specific that just makes you feel gorgeous?

Originally Posted By: ashley69 id like to get out of this state of mind that im ugly. i mean, people say im not. but i just "feel" ugly. you know? I know exactly what you mean. I think I got it into my head when I was little that I just wasn't one of the pretty girls at school and kinda accepted that. Now I can often get into a "I'm ugly" frame of mind for no particular reason, which really pisses my bf off because he seems to think I'm the most beautiful girl hes ever seen. I think he's deranged , but sweet.The only advice I have is having a photo of your self where you looked and felt really attractive and looking at that when you feel bumbed out. Doing little things for your self can help too, I sometimes just spend ages painting my nails, washing my hair, doing a skin treatment, plucking my brows etc or dressing up and going out.

Originally Posted By: ashley69Do ALL guys think with their penis?Yes, if they have one. Sometimes with their testicles as well.