Should I go for it?

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I'm 20 yo and a Virgin, i've never had a gf. There's this one girl from work who I always used to flirt with and she would as well. One day the conversation turned to "experiences" and I found out that she's experienced, done it a few times, even in some interesting places. The conversation went on and she told me that wanted us to get it on!. :eyes: Well....Inside I went completely gaga! But my no 1 biggest concern is catching something. I'd wear a condom but besides that...how do you ask someone if they're "clean"?

I left the job and thought that after leaving I would take her up on the offer considering that even if it turned awkward I wouldn't see her often. What do you think?

Thanks in advance for your help!

I'd go for it... How can you tell if she's "clean"?.. well you can't unless she gets tested.

Well I think Rad was going for more when you look at the girl, does she look like a healthy in shape women. Or does she appear to be unkempt and dirty. But you're right, sometimes looks can be deceiving.

Eh? :confused:

How a person looks doesn't determine if they have a STD or not, so judging one's hygine doesn't mean anything.

That's why I said looks can be deceiving. Nowadays anyone from a gorgeous model to a homeless woman could have a serious STD. I think condoms are always a safe bet until you're into a serious relationship and/or tested.

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