ok so theres this girl i wanted to meet up with. i saw her when i was hanging out with my friends, my one friend knows her a little. so i got in touch with her through him, and told her wanted to met up. she said yeah. so we met up the one time for about 20 mins and just chit chatted. told her i would call her up. anyway 3 days later (today) i call her up. ended up calling her cell three times in a row because at first i got an answering machine, typical generic voice. called 30 mins later again and it sounded like she picked up, some voices in background, and hung up. so i figured she hung up by accident and i called again, and heard the exact same thing. weird, dont know. anyway i ended up calling 3 times, and now im just stressin it was too many times, although it wasnt on purpose. i realize she could of been ignoring me. anyway, i dont want to look like a fool / desperate. should i be the one trying to initiate contact again, or should i test it and wait for her to call back? i really want to see her again.if it matters, age is around ~17.any help is appreciated - thanks in advance!
Did you leave her a voice mail the first ring?
Were you able to say "hello" on the second or third time?
Give it a day, and maybe she'll call you.
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She's got your number now and can call if she's interested. I'd give it a rest and see what happens.
thanks for the tip virtualstar and readytogo. ill wait till tomorrow i guess - won't be calling anyway because ill just look like a weirdoalthough im just a newbie, i hate how relationships require so much work from the guy's part. at least i can sit back for once and wait (for her to NOT call me).i mean wtf.
It's stuff like this that gives me motivation to write songs.
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