Ok,so since this is the only place i can come to for advice since my family seems clueless and always gives the wrong options,am keeping you posted.I sat down my bf and told him what was what if he didnt try to clean up his act.He would lose me and i would be taking our daughter along with me(it was too harsh,but i had to do it,i was having a nervous breakdown and i didn
t know what else to do).Once again he apologised and being the softhearted person i am i forgave him.He wanted to try again and for us to start fresh.I said ok,because I DO LOVE HIM!!! Am not to young to be in love,its not about age,it
s the experiences,and ive been through alot in my short life but it made me wiser and stronger.I somehow think that i am thinking with my heart(and body) and not my mind. Am making an unselfish decision and am willing to try again not only for me but for our daughter,it
s because of her i want this to work so badly,shes the main reason why i want to work it out with her daddy(and because i love him off course).In closing am just saying that the next time i post weeping and wailing about my miserable relationship,please don
t hesitate to cuss out my ass and say i told you so.THANK YOU.
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Keeping you guys posted
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Love between a 16-year-old child and a 19-year-old adult? I'm having trouble swallowing that.Nothing wrong with being forgiving or softhearted. But don't fool yourself in thinking that if you forgive him 100 times, he's going to easily change. I know he's the father of your child, but that's not enough for "love" to survive. You just need to grow a bit of tough skin and stop falling for the sweet talk.Just know, your baby will be just as happy with just you and your family. You don't need both parents to insure a happy and healthy child. So, it's not the end of the world if it doesn't work out.Good luck, you may really need it.
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Thank you,that really is nice of you guys. Your inputs and opinions are welcome because believe me i need them. Thank you guys.