(hopefully this is an okay place to post it, as im not sure where else to put it)my boyfriend and i have recently started having sex, but the 2 times that we have tried, it doesnt work out so well. the first time he went soft, which i think was from nerves, but then the 2nd time (last night), it just didnt work out again. he's uncut -- not sure if this factors in, in anyway. he has a hard time of finding his was into me in any of the positions we try, even when i guide him. and he stil kept going soft every now and then.anyone wanna give some suggestions here on how this can be fixed?
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Not sure where to post this..
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yeah i'm helping him the best i can. i asked him if he was nervous and he said not really, could any of this be my fault at all?
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thanks, i'm just figuring we both suck at it loland both times we've been in a bed.dont think ill go for a car, because were both pretty talland it wouldnt be very comfortable
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You guys have only tried 2 times... Give it some more time to become more familiar with each other and the act. It'll work out.
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well he leaves for school in about a week and a half or so, and we dont get much time to go for it, who knows, might just stick with the other stuff for now.(we're both 18 btw)
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I understand that he's leaving, but there's no real need to cross the finishing line by next week. You guys will still see each other, right?Like Rad said, no one's at fault. Good chance it's all just nerves and it's too soon to call it a real problem.Take it slow and learn what feels good. Sex is supposed to be fun, not fustrating. Sooner or later, it'll get better, so have fun practicing, lol.
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Originally Posted By: RadI think it is nerves and he'll learn.You are helping guide him in, right?Nobody can do that better than you. And it is not your fault at all,it
s normal when it first happens and dont worry he is nervous and he will learn.