I'm just wondering on how long it would take the average guy to cum. For me it takes about 5+ minutes with no porn an about 2 minutes with porn. Is this normal? Also as far as sex/oral to you cum quicker than if you were jacking off?
Length to cum?!?!?
Originally Posted By: redsox5524
Also as far as sex/oral to you cum quicker than if you were jacking off?
Maybe not always. When masturbating, you're using techniques that your specifically used to, and since you're getting the feedback to the brain, you know whether to adjust your technique and go faster or slower to bring yourself to orgasm.
But with sex, it might take longer to orgasm than using your hand, or if it's oral, it depends on the person giving it. They might not have much experience with doing it how you want it.
Some guys find that they cum much faster in real sex than in masturbation, while some find they take much longer. I don't think it can be predicted.
Your cumming times are quite normal, but there's a huge range that is normal. Some people can take very much longer.
your lucky, i wish i could cum quickly like that. it takes me forever to cum during masturbation, anywhere from 20-40 minutes.
sex i can control, from 5 minutes - ...... depending on the women, and her needs/wants. and the time we have.
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I have the problem where its really really hard for me to cum in a decent time during sex. It really really sucks (it wouldn't seem like it) but she gets tired after about 20 minutes (or about 3-4 orgasms, whatever comes first) whereas I want to keep going.
But I'm like the OP, I can cum in about 5 minutes of masturbation, so you may end up being the same way. There's really no way to tell how long it will take when you do the actual thing.
I am just the opposite I can't last much more the 5 min mast. and less for intercourse. wish I could last like you and she get even one climax.
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It all depends on where is your mind at time of doing it. You do it with your mind absent and hands full active , quick ejaculation and if you are relaxed and gently doing it , you can take it as far as you want