I would love to talk dirty to my man...but i really dont know what to say...any ideas?
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Talking Dirty
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Complement on his member and how much you want it.
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What do you think would be the most appealing thing to call it?...i just don't think penis sounds that appealing...lol...but i could be wrong...also...i'll pretty much have to tell him exactly what to say to me...any suggestions?We're not a very creative couple
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Originally Posted By: Virtual_Star
Complement on his member and how much you want it.
Do what virtual_star said,you can say sword or shaft or cock or dick whichever you feel comfortable with.
Have you ever heard of the book called Karma Sutra,it`s not all about sex positions but it helps.
I find that over the phone is the most easiest and comfortable way to talk dirty to your man. -
Hmmm...wish i had a karma sutra book lol
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just moan and stuff alot. Guys dont listen to what you are saying just say it sexy and kinda have a fake orgasm. you could probably read a grocery list sexy and get him going.
im kinda only have serous there guys, but really its not that hard. Its kinda weird to me but its not all that hard just do it
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"you could probably read a grocery list sexy and get him going."I know you said your only half serious but I have to say that shit wouldn't work with me. To me talking dirty is about hearing my lady tell me all the dirty thoughts that are going through her mind, not just a sexy voice, a few pants, and fake moans.Not that there's anything wrong with those but I want to know the naughty, sick shit that's in her head. That's what talking dirty is all about.
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I agree 100%
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Originally Posted By: capriprincess
Originally Posted By: Virtual_Star
Complement on his member and how much you want it.
Do what virtual_star said,you can say sword or shaft or cock or dick whichever you feel comfortable with.
Have you ever heard of the book called Karma Sutra,it`s not all about sex positions but it helps.
I find that over the phone is the most easiest and comfortable way to talk dirty to your man.For me the hottest thing is a girl saying how wet she is.
Instant arousal from something like that. And as mentioned, compliments to my cock, but I agree that some words work better than others.
"Sword" would just make me laugh, though. Cock, shaft, boner and I suppose dick and knob are acceptable for me. Anything else would only cause amusement.Also saying things with lust in your voice makes it so much hotter.
By changing "I want your cock" to "God I really need your cock" makes it much better! and making it sound desperate helps also :laughing:So yeah, as a short list I'd say
- say how wet you are
- compliment the cock (how big it is, how hot it looks, how hard it is!)
- say how bad you want him
- say how good he makes you feel
I guess the emphasis is on what a good lover he is :P Big him up! The more the guy feels like he's doing a good job of turning you on, the more turned on he will be. Or at least that's how I work.
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Quote: >>>"you could probably read a grocery list sexy and get him going."umm. no. i'd leave her and go find some food. yummm grocerys....food. i wonder if we have some ice cream left???
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lol thanks for asking this question, these answers are great. Could be helpful :P
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I agree with pretty much what's already been said, but you say you're not so creative... you must have one really deep dark fantasy that keeps you up at night wondering if you can act it out??? or maybe that's just me and I'm a perv... if you trust your partner enough, share with him!It took my gf and I almost 3 years to learn the very darkest fantasies that we have, and that was only through the fact that I decided to just go for it, and if I was wrong about the fantasy that was to be acted out, then, spend a lot of time making up for it and looking suitably embarrassed about it!!Now, I'm not gonna say what the fantasies we share are, because that would just be a breach of trust, but I do like the dirty talk in amongst any fantasies that we share!! & making my gf beg for my cock... I just love the look on her face when I know she needs it more than anything else in the world right at that moment... I'm not saying that'll do it for you, but the right look at the right moment with the right words can work wonders... have to say though... calling it a sword isn't gonna do you any favours with me... not to say it won't work on some men, just that, I prefer the lewdest terms possible for what it actually is, such as: cock or dick, and filthy as everyone says the word is, I love the word cunt for a sexual term!!Anyhoo, I guess I should cool off now, as I hafta go back to work soon, and now I'm thinking waaaaay to many dirty thoughts!!!!!! Ah well, enjoy yourself!! and most importantly, just do whatever comes naturally ... I know some people just don't talk dirty at all, just do what feels right to you and enjoy yourselves!!
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Originally Posted By: CR125 Quote: >>>"you could probably read a grocery list sexy and get him going."umm. no. i'd leave her and go find some food. yummm grocerys....food. i wonder if we have some ice cream left??? OMG lol, guys are so complicated.
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Oh thank you all so much for these answers...now all i have to do is get up the courage to say them