Hey guys. This is probably a weird question, but here goes; My boyfriend and i fool around about once a week. The head of h is penis is usually really hard, an dkinda like shiny. But the past few times it hasnt been. Its been soft and kinda more, idk, spongey? Idk if it has an signifigance, like him being less turned on or something?
Hardness of the head?
The head is a continuation of the corpus spongiosum, which is an erectile tissue that's more difficult to get hard than the corpus carvernosum that provides most of the rigidity to the shaft. A guy has an especially hard erection if the head is hard and shiny, but it's not always like that.
How hard the erection is can depend on things like tiredness and stress, but it can also just be natural fluctuations in hormone levels.
Extra hard head pains ! So be happy with a bit softer one..
Also this hardness varies with time. It depends on how horny have you become !