Hi My name is Dakota - I was raised in a strict Christan home for most of my life, well tell i was about 12, I am 16 now and over the years i have been having problems finding my identity.Over the last few years I have thoughts that go through my find that i think are wrongI always have thought that I am a straight male, Still to today, I dream about one day having a child of my own, but over the last few years there is times when i pass by i boy that is skinnier then me or better looking and i think wow is he good looking. I have found my self at times when i am with other boys or in a swiming pools changing room, thinking wounder if the boys beside me are bigger then me, i think this may be do to the fact that i consider my self to have a small penis only just under 6inch's.When i see these boys that are better looking then me i have never found my self thinking that i could spend a life time with them, but i have thought wow, i would like to spend a night with them!So can some one helps me, in anwsering my question what the hell is wrong with me?
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What the F$%^ is wrong with me
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Nothing is 'wrong' with you. It's fine to think about these things. It's your choice as to whether or not you'd act on these feelings though. Remember, it's not wrong to be interested in the same sex. Just try not to put yourself down while doing so.
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curiosity bears no shame.
try not to put your self down though. Think of it this way... there are approximatly 2 billion men of sexually active age in this world. There can really be only one biggest dick and only one smallest. The rest of us are in the middle :smile: -
Welcome to A2A, Dakota. Sexuality is something we have to accept, but it's probably not a good idea to put labels on it too soon. I think deep down our brains are bisexual, and how it filters through to the upper levels of our brain may be influenced a lot by circumstances - for example, by a lack of self-confidence, and perhaps not much experience with girls. As these change, you may find your interests change also.You don't in fact have a small penis. The average is probably about 5 1/2 inches, so you are if anything just over average. Perhaps you don't have enough confidence in yourself generally?
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I think all guys have some bi in them but never really admit it.I believe it is ok to be curious.
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I was also raised in a strict christian home. When i was growing up I looked at other guys all the time. I also look at guys as being good-looking. You are not small you are a little above average. And being curious wanting to spend a night together with another guy, is only curiosity. When you are in the changing rooms and stuff, walk around like you have the biggest dick ever. What I am trying to say is have confidence in yourself, and trust me having a big dick is not everything it is made out to be. So have confidience in yourself and if you end up spending a night with a guy, enjoy it. But don't feel guilty, remember it's only curiosity. Have a good day.
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I agree with just about everything that was said above this reply. Everyone is who They are, and not someone else. Comparing is human nature, we compare lots of things, not just, manland...you're quite normal, and your still young dude, and i can say this, sort of; I'm about your age also, and theres still time to sort out who you are in that department.
And also, just something to point out, something i noticed. If you've ever heard the prover/saying/mentality/whatever... that what you don't like in other people, is something you don't like in yourself, the inverse is also true. Like if you admire or like skinny guys, then maybe you have a desire to lose some weight, or something along those lines. Not saying that's what your mind-set is, just something to know. ^.^
The more you know. [insert shooting star] :grin:
