I have had this problem for as long as I remember. I stop responding instantly, the second the guy's attention wanders away from me, I loose my interest in foreplay or whatever we were doing. No matter how hard I try or the guy tries, I cant get aroused again for hours or days. I dont know why it happens. I do feel depressed immediately when the guy's eyes are not on me. This happens during masturbation too, I loose interest when I am doing it, feel depressed and cry.
Is this normal or is something wrong with me?
This has been bothering me a lot lately. Wat should I do or what am I doing wrong? Do I have to seek professional help? Is my depression or BPD affecting me in this area too?