Well according to Rad, it's a no no.I saw her with her friends today, I don't know if she saw me, but I didn't look in her direction. I almost died. I don't know what I'm going to do when I see her at work tomorrow. Maybe the new pants I bought yesterday will help boost my confidence. I don't know. I understand what people posted about no regrets, but I feel really stupid for doing this and I think I'm going to get my feelings hurt. I never recover well. I already put my words out there and I can't take them back now...so I guess I'll just go with and hope I don't get hurt too badly. Seriously guys, I'm going to need all the positivity I can get (at least so y'all can hear the gossip :)).
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I Think She Knows
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Well I had planned sending it via email. I don't know her number and I don't text.Her friends were girls, I've always seen her with girls, I think. She told me last week that a lot of her firends are art majors (like me :)).I was feeling a bit down over the situation right now, so I went to sleep and had a pretty nice dream about us.
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I'll let you know how it goes.
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Okay here was her last reply after I asked her about poems from people she knew."yea those are good too. except i don't know many people that write poems much. do you write any?"My response:"Well it's funny that you ask, I do. I'm usually really picky about who reads them and since you're really nice... I guess I'll have to type one up then??"I do have a good one in mind.
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Woo, go you so, how's it gone with sending the poem??I sent one to my gf for her birthday... I don't do poems, and I have no idea what kinda poem I wrote, it's just a nice poem that I sent her with roses heh heh .... I'm a cancerian, what can I say lol ... that's my excuse for being a hopeless romantic anyway!!Hope everything went well with the poem though, hope that she liked it ... now's your chance to ask her out heh hehGo for it!! in fact, I dare ya now you have to!!! lol
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Well she did like it, but I don't think I'll be asking her out right away. A friend of ours is showing some of her art on the 20th and I asked if she was going. She hasn't replied yet, but...she did touch my hand today (pretty hot) and she was saying my name a lot, so I think the feeling are mutual. I was talking about how my hands and feet are always cold and she commented that she was hot, so she walked over and touched my hand. She has really warms hands. It was a small thing, but it still was very nice. :smile:
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What are you waiting for?! A formal invitation? Just go for it!
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I'm trying. I think I'll ask if she want to chat through IM. Maybe then I'll able to tell her my intentions.
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Okay guys, I'm really nervous. I haven't messaged her and the hasn't replied to my last message. This is what I want to send her though. So, it's a what would you do because I just have to know. What would you do if someone you knew told you something that could possibly alter the type of relationship you have with them? Would you perceive the change as awkward if you responed differently than the person expected?Is it too forward, too puzzling, too much...?? I need help.
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Just ask her to go out to get dinner.
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I agree. Ask to her dinner but in doing so let her know what your interests are.I kinda favor the direct approach, maybe that's just me. I think, being to subtle here is going to leave to many questions and ultimately, you and maybe her, in a state of confusion.