I gave my boyfriend a handjob for the first time the other night. I felt like I had no idea what I was doing. I didn't expect what happened.. to happen? I guess my question is how do I relax and what do I do to make the next experience more pleasurable for both of us? What exactly am I supposed to do, what feels good? and also, what makes "clean up" easier and not so uncomfortable. I'm completely lost..
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Just A Beginer
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You're not supposed to know how to do it. Ask him if what you're doing is okay. Seriously. He would rather you ask him than you perform poorly. If you trust him, it would also help you calm down. As for cleanup, use a towel or somesuch.Consider mutual masturbation - it makes things easier if you're both comfortable with each other.
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Definetly ask him what he likes.. and to show you how.Its more fun if hes touching you at the same time too.
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Well, from a utilization point of view, you could use your mouth, (no teeth) cause it feels good basically regardless, and there is no clean up :P
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If you're making a mess you must be doing something right!
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Each guy is differant. Pay attention to him and when he seems to be enjoying somthing allot then you will know youre doing it right. Here are some ideas:http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/questions/hand-jobAlso maybe watch some hand job porn movies there are plenty of free porn video sites out there. I doubt I can link something like that here but if you google "Porn hub" you will find a site with many free movies, then just search "hand job". That may give you some ideas on what to do.Though if you're under 18 you shouldn't be watching porn... but that didn't stop me when I was young, but I thought I better say just to make sure you knew.
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"tickle his pickel" is a book all about all that on amazon and spencer's gifts
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i just feel awkward, i guess. we talk to eachother about everything, but when it comes to this stuff i just don't know what to do. probably because i'm basically the virgin mother and have never done anything against my parents or church in my life. i thought i never would, but this boy and i have been dating now for over 6 months and i love him. and in the heat of the moment, shit happens? i don't reget it, i just want it to be more enjoyable. still, cleanup is my biggest thing. last time he had to go into the bathroom for a while, while i was upstairs changing. it wasn't the most comfortable situation. but i can't just whip out a towel mid handjob. i'll ask for a sense of direction next time, if there's a next time? all other suggestions seem helpful, it's just the afterwards thing. i don't even know what to say after, you're welcome is probably not the best idea. and i'm sort of disgusted by the mess. any more advice?
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Just keep tissues in his room, or get some before you start doing it or leave some in your purse. Clean it up, then throw it away. What to say after words, we usually tell each other we love each other but if you not at that stage, then just go up to him kiss him then perhaps cuddle.
