Its been 5 years since my best friend died. I still feel really shitty and sad. Does it ever get any easier? You'd think that after 5 years id stop getting so upset.
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.does it ever get any easier?
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simple answer is no... complex answer is eventually.you'll never completely be over it.there are just some things that never go away, one being this.speaking as a person whos lost more people then a countries army, metaphorically speaking of course.its hard, being so accustomed to going to your loved one when you need to vent.there are so many insignificant things in this world that cause us to rewind and remember the ones we loved.for me its as small as certain words or actions that people do unknowningly, or a song that my friend used to say..whenever i see someone smoking a newport 100 or when i smoke one myself, i relive moments that i was with my friends who have passed.all you can do is accept it, and live with the feeling, eventually you'll become accustomed to your surroundings, and you will learn to live with it.just smile when something reminds you of them, and think about all the good times you've had.know that there watching you, and there with you, smiling too...
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Originally Posted By: StephieJIts been 5 years since my best friend died. I still feel really shitty and sad. Does it ever get any easier? You'd think that after 5 years id stop getting so upset. I feel your pain... everydayyou NEVER get over it. I too miss my best friend everyday. A day doesnt go by,that I dont think of him.I miss him so much!!I know I have guardian angel now but I just miss my friend!!
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i had a pretty horrible day yesterday.. I miss her soo much.. it hurts me to know that the only person i still talk to in our group of friends is her sister. We're pretty close though.It hurts me how much i miss her.. I just cry like crazy.I just hope there really is a heaven.. that way I know I can at least look forward to seeing her once again.
