i have the biggest jerk for a dad
i wont bore you with details
but he's pretty much a horrible alcoholic, hangs shit on me and my mum every single day. about the stupidest things.
im sitting here on the computer and hes been yelling at her in the next room, for about an hour and a half. Over absolutely nothing!
My mum went to take care of her mum for a few nights coz the lady was sick. she waited til my dad went to bed to go see her, then came home before he woke up.. but its not really important.
My point is that he's just a jerk, gives everyone shit over the smallest things, takes out whatever happens to him anywhere out on us, occasionally hits her/me, drinks everynight and just craps on everyones life.
he's been drinking and smoking every night since he was 19, hes almost 50 now, healthy and still alive.. go figure? i guess only the good die young.
literally, the world would be a better place if he was dead, as sad as it is to say, hes a burden on everyone around him and somehow manages to make everyones lives miserable.
Im not just sitting here and complaining not doing anything about it either, ive left the house and gone to live with my grandma for a while, weve had interventions, ive even tried the ridiculous thing of arguing with a drunk person... there goes days of my life i'll never get back.
im at school for roughly 8 - 10 hours a day (i go to tafe) and thats great being away from him and all.. but it leaves me with little time to get a job and earn some money to get out of this hole.
its just not fair. ive been a good kid and i know i dont deserve this at all.. my mum doesnt deserve any of this either.
i feel so bad for her, poor woman.
im not sure if im really asking for advice here, i just really needed to vent. but any advice would be greatly appreciated?
thanks for reading guys.
Its just not fair
If he hits you/your mom report him.
How close are you to finishing and getting your qualification? Then you'll be able to work full-time and move out, and that's something to look forward to. With some parents all you can do is leave them behind.