Ok so this is basically an update to my last thread "Only Heavy Like Me."
So I recently posted an online dating profile. I had it up for about a month with no success. I did get tons of emails, most of them from girls who really just didn't fit my standards. Maybe they had some excess weight, maybe their faces weren't so pleasing, etc. I never once saw a stunning beauty online who was single.
Finally one day I get a message from a very attractive girl who I talked to for a while and thought I was connecting with. At first I was surprised because she was the only attractive girl I'd ever seen use that service. I met her and she was with her "less appealing" friend who was a little chuuby and who appeared to be interested in me right away and kind of flirted with me throughout the evening. The hot girl kind of left at various points and left me alone with the other girl. The evening went alright but it seemed the hot girl had some "situation to deal with and at one point left me alone for a whole hour. Could she have really had a situation or was this a ruse to get me alone and talking with the other girl?
The hot girl called me several times and talked to me for hours about her life, beliefs, etc. She tells me about her past relationships, everything. I mean I tried to sound interested but when a girl rambles about her day what can I really say to that? Then a couple of days ago she randomly asks if I found her "less appealing" friend attractive and almost appeared to be attempting to set me up with her. She says her friend wants to call me and I said "ok I guess" or something to that accord.
Then the friend calls me and asks if I want to go out this weekend. I nervously replied "maybe, I'll get back to you" and faked being busy with something more serious so I could end the call politely.
She's a nice girl but I don't want to be any more than friends with her. I want the original girl.
Is this some elaborate online dating bait and switch routine where an attractive girl meets a potential suitor just to create an introduction between him and a less attractive friend? Maybe in this scam it's assumed that a girl who would normally be ignored on online dating sites would be able to somehow date a guy if her attractive friend posed as the seeking female and the idea is if a guy met a girl in real life he'd normally ignore online that he would change his mind, that I'd see her "real" qualities or some bullshit?
Am I just paranoid? I don't want to ruin things with this girl, I just started talking to her and I want it to work out for me this time. I also don't want the less attractive girl to hate me.
Anyone ever heard of anything like thing before?
I mean if you were a girl who was interested in dating a guy why in hell would you let him know your friend likes him?