so... once upon a time i met this girl. she was the very essence of a nobel prize winners mind with the imagination of a cartoonist. always was there to help anyone who needed it, just the kindest most caring person one could ever hope to meet.
then theres me, the nostalgic nerdy guy who over analyzes everything to down to every useless detail. we had dated for two years, it never went very serious no more than a peck on the cheek every now and then. i was always there for her she was there for me. she ended it our sophmore year and i havent been able to put her out of my mind. i cant think straight, i cant even type in full sentences anymore. my grades are slipping my mind is degrading, and theres not a damn thing i can do about it shes always there in my head and i cant get her out like a horrible train accident that gets engraved into your short term memory as just keep staring on into the flames that occcupy every live neuron of every moment and i just want it to stop please what can i do for my sanity to get her out of my mind
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Why is she there
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Welcome to A2A, ketsueki.Absence makes the heart grow fonder, and unattainability also creates an aura. Perhaps in reality she's not quite as perfect as you imagine?Do you see her much now?
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I can tell ya she isn't that perfect, no one is.The heart wants what the heart wants, I know, but why don't you give your heart a break and let your dick do the thinking for awhile. In other words start checking out other women. While your pining over this one you may be missing someone who's gonna make her pale in comparison.
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Originally Posted By: OldFolks
While your pining over this one you may be missing someone who's gonna make her pale in comparison.
Happens all the time...we pass right by the best ones because we're hung up on the "also-rans".
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yes i see her everyday in school in the halls i dont see her in my classes anymore because im no longer taking any honors courses because i cant keep up with them which is odd because i was already about to sign up post secondary because i was going to graduate a year earlyand she is just there: a better example its like a trojan program, you download a file off the internet and all of the sudden an advertisement pops up for viagra or google or something like that. you try and delete it but you cant get rid of it so you just put up with it for a while before you notice that it always pops up right when your doing something imoirtant minimizing all other windows and your stuck staring at that same ad every 25 minutes that you cant get rid and its always thereits like that but with my mind and constantlyi just want to get her out of my head
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Yep...that kind of thing sucks when you're young. We all go/went through it. And I know it doesn't make it any easier, but you will get over her...you will survive.