I'm back from California today. 32 hours to drive from there to here. I'm back, but not the same. I'm really depressed and sad. It's like some freakish nightmare...
I'm back... Kinda
sorry to see your going thru this.You have friends here who love you and care about you and will be there for you whenever you need them.Be strong bud.
Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.
I'm sorry, too, Roc.
HUGS Glad you are back safely, just remember there isn't a time limit on grief, take the time you need.
"Don't be a Dork! Wrap your Pork!"
All I have to say has been said in private, and should ya feel like there is more to say, or something to be done, or ya need someone to talk to while ya get shitty ass drunk, you have my house and cell numbers and my email.
Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be.
I don't believe in time healing wounds but in time the bad memories fade and the good ones come to the forefront. All I can say is spend a little time each day, as you become able, reflecting on and talking about the funny times and the good memories you have. Those times can do more to heal the hurt than anything else.
There is no punishment. There is no reward. There are only consequences.