I often have a hard time concentrating during intercourse. Sometimes I try to focus on pleasing her too much that I either feel very little sensation or sometimes even want to come much to quick. When the second is the case, I usually slow down the pace which leads to her loosing her orgazm. This really upsets both of us. I am frustrated!!! I am 25 years old and frequently masturbate. Please let me know what you can offer to help. Actually, sometime I have no, or very little sensation at all. When this is the case I can go on for a long time (45 min - 1.5 hr) but usually dont orgazm. Am I just out of whak???