Okay, so I've posted before about things related to my problem; I can't seem to get ANY satisfaction fom penetration. None, at all.During sex I feel absolutely nothing. Sometimes when my boyfriend fingers me i feel a strange feelig, but it's always just barely there. My boyfriend and I have tried every position we could find. and toys. Also, lately when we have sex sometimes when he pushes in i feel this felling that hurts, bu t not in a stinging or pinching kinda way, but like he's hitting something or pressuring something too much? I'm not sure.Is there something wrong with me?
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FURSTRATING. No feeling?
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see ob/gyn?
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It's fairly common that a woman would not orgasm from penetration alone. The fact that you're not getting off from him fingering you is more troubling. Can you describe this "strange feeling?" Is it good or bad? Do you think you've ever experienced an orgasm?When he penetrates you, you say that it feels like he is hitting something. It could be your cervix. Is he rather large?
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I get exactly the same problem. The vagina has so few nerve endings (or else childbirth would kill you) that I fail to see how something going in out in out can possibly feel good on it's own?I agree that it sounds like he's hitting your cervix. Try different, shallower positions to get rid of that. Or go on top so you can control how deep he goes
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Originally Posted By: readytogo
It's fairly common that a woman would not orgasm from penetration alone. The fact that you're not getting off from him fingering you is more troubling. Can you describe this "strange feeling?" Is it good or bad? Do you think you've ever experienced an orgasm?
When he penetrates you, you say that it feels like he is hitting something. It could be your cervix. Is he rather large?I guess the feeling could be good, but it's barely there, so its hard to tell. And, i'm not sure if i've ever organsmed. I can mastubate by only stimulating my clitoris, and it feel sgreat, but i've never felt like a BAM! great feeling?
We've tried stimulating my clit during sex, but i dont feel much. The only way I feel it is if theres a good amount of pressure, a lot of surface covering it, and really fast movements. so it doesnt really help much.. :smirk:
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my ex seemed to have the same problem, i eventually fgure her out, we tried slow, fast, certain areas to hit, eventually i found that some stimulation of her clit and the fact that i can vibrate my hips...i eventually made her orgasm...and according to her, she had never felt that much pleasure before. i dont know if she was lieing to me...but she tightend around me harder than id ever felt...think it made my dick choke...was very satisfying for me. You need to find the right formula...A girls orgasm is a puzzle...just gotta find the pieces
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I have the same thing. But with me, sometimes, I get excited during sex and other times I just feel nothing. Well when we first started having sex, I would get excited but now I just don't feel anything anymore, even if he uses his hand or anything. I feel nothing. It is me or is it him?
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Welcome to A2A, jb88. I don't think it helps to try to put blame on one side or another. It's something that affects you together, and that can only be worked on together. It's actually very common. Can you advise him on what he could do new that might help?
