how do you be a "perfect girlfriend"? like...what things make you great...like, when you boyfriend is sad, upset, worried, how do you help him? like what are some traits that you can explain would make a "perfect girlfriend"...(i know theres no perfect, but you know what i mean)
PLZ HELP ME!?!?!?!
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I'm glad you realize that there is no such thing as a 'perfect' anyone!! Besides - 'perfect' would be scary. It's our flaws and imperfections that give us charactor and make us unique!!
That said... guys and girls have different emotional needs. Whereas girls [generally speaking] like to share their feeling when they're upset - guys [again - generally speaking] do not. The best thing a girl [or guy - for that matter] could do when a male friend is sad, upset or worried is to let him know that you are 'there' IF he wants to talk about how he's feeling - and leave it at that. IF a girl tries to pressure him to talk - it will only make HIM feel guilty for hurting HER feelings. [which it the last thing he needs] And as a result of that 'talk to me' pressure - guys will often become even more withdrawn and the chances of him EVER talking about whatever it is that's bothering him becomes even less likely.
I hope that helps!!
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<span style="color: red">"It takes FAR MORE COURAGE to be KIND than it does to be CRUEL"</span> - CanadaCraig
Well said, Craig.
i def agree with that. im a big cuddler, tahts how my mom brought me up, but i would love the girl just to come and give me a kiss and lay with me, or give me a big old hug...