when ever i am turned on...like when i m with my boyfriend or during foreplay....i feel cramps in my lower abdomen, whole pelvic region i feel sharp pain, it even hurts in my vagina deep inside, my vaginal opening too feels painful with burning sensation, my brain goes blank and cant recall much until after i feel normal to some level. the pain lasts for hours or days and sometimes spreads to my thighs and legs. i havent had any orgasms yet.i dont have sex with my boyfriend and he doesnt insert his finger/s. this pain and cramps are driving me nuts. is this normal or is something wrong with me?what will help in reducing this pain?should i avoid foreplay?
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Help me....plz
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Originally Posted By: Sayai havent had any orgasms yet. ...ever?I don't know if it's possible, but could you be experiencing some sort of female 'blue balls' reaction?If I get turned on and get involved in sexual activities but get no release, then my testicles and in fact whole lower abdominal region ache like crazy, to the point where it is difficult to walk or drive. Having an orgasm relieves this.Like I say, I don't know if girls get the same thing, but it might be worth a try to see if an orgasm will rectify the issue.If masturbation or mutual masturbation is an issue, then really the only way to avoid it is to avoid sexual situations.
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I was going to say the same thing... girls can get the same type of reaction to arousal without release... male blue balls. The female genetalia becomes engorged with blood and can produce these aching feelings.
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i never had orgasms during foreplay cos its not enough to make me orgasm :frowning: i will give masturbation a try, right after foreplay hope it helps.
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Ok tried masturbating for all these months..........the pain has been increasing and spreading towards my legs and my breasts are also feeling painful........I really dont know what to do now.......I am finding it difficult to sit, sleep or walk. I feel like I am turned on all the time......I am finding it hard to explain it but if I were a guy then it would be like I am having an erection lasting for days.......I couldnt find anything else to compare whats happening to me :frowning:
Any help?