alright, its not a question about my sexuality, per se, i know I'm straight, i lika da girls , but there's this guy, right? and it's like, i wanna do 'im, but i don't at the same time. and i cant help but kinda oogle over him, man, im reddening just typing this ; and I've had similar experiences before, but they passed and went away, then it happened again, somewhat recently, but i fell upon the "maybe-there's-something-they-have-physically/whatever-that-you-don't" theory, found it, and that also went away. but this one won't. ive tried that, and a couple other things that one of my friends that ive been talking to about this, and it hasn't worked. before, it was a minor annoyance, but now, after a few weeks, its starting to become frustrating, and infuriating (not like demoniacally, just causing anger ) and as great as my friend is, he isn't helping, but at least he's not hurting. so, i guess I'm looking for advice, or just similar exp.s and what corrected them, its beginning to irk me.any help at all would be most appreciated.and isn't it interesting, no matter what the problem, you can;tven really ask a close friend, but you can ask a group of strangers? man, A2A is great!
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I like him, but i dont want to like him...
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Things like this happen all the time, I'd say it is pretty natural for a straight man to have random feelings for other guys... Not that I would know, being gay... But, hey, it's normal, I say just ride it out.. No need to nip it... Eventually they will do something and you might even start to not like them. Who knows? Look for flaws?
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Why not just let it be. If your attracted to this guy just be attracted, it's not like you have to act on it or even tell anybody. You want what you want. Concentrating on trying to change it is just going to keep it that much more prevalent in your mind.I say, if you have no intentions of acting on your desires than just enjoy the thought of him while your jackin' it and go on with your life until someone else peaks your interest.
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well, it doesn't feel that easy to me. i mean I'm fine with thinkin' of him, heh...,but, it makes me feel uneasy, and a little stressed. i know i won't act on it, but theres a part of me that feels like it would, and not that it would be the absolute end of the world, but it bothers me. theres not like anything i can do, and i know it sounds like im restating the problem, i just cant get you outta my head, lol kylie minouge...wow, back on topic, but i need some kind of distraction, and since the girlfriend department is a bit lacking at the moment, nothing is really helping. i am very grateful for your advice and everything, but there has to be something more. and Reen, I've tried that. its not helping, much. that was almost exactly what i started with, and it did help, but for like a week, but ill keep looking for them, i suppose.and it's piques....not peaks.